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Can Your Child Overcome Dyslexia?
Parents must be scratching their heads about a dyslexia diagnosis these days. Dyslexia used to be feared, as it represented a lifetime of reading frustration and other learning struggles, and the main question was: Can you overcome dyslexia?
However, attitudes toward dyslexia seem to be changing. Facebook groups and forums celebrate dyslexia, and the list of successful people who have dyslexia and attribute part of their success to it is growing every day.
So what is going on here? Is this celebration of dyslexia (and other “learning differences” for that matter) another symptom of the societal trend towards protecting our children from all bad things, including the reality that their “learning difference” is a euphemism for a learning difficulty, or is there some truth to the assertion that a dyslexia diagnosis is not necessarily out-and-out bad news?
This article reviews the good, bad, and ugly of dyslexia, then looks at the logistics of overcoming it.
Dyslexia, The Good
You do have to wonder when you see the list of successful dyslexics. It includes scientists, economists, entrepreneurs, lawyers, public servants, doctors, and even writers and authors (including the world’s best-selling author, Agatha Christie!). How is this possible if dyslexia is all bad?
There are three forces at work:
- Dyslexia forces creativity
- Dyslexia teaches tenacity
- Many dyslexics eventually learn how to read proficiently
It’s no surprise that a study in the UK recently found that 1 in 3 start-up founders were dyslexic. Coping with dyslexia as a kid requires out-of-the-box thinking and resilience, arguably the two most crucial characteristics of entrepreneurs.
How dyslexia helps creativity
According to Yale University, home to Dr. Sally Shaywitz and arguably the most trusted resource on dyslexia, dyslexics tend to be highly creative and have many cognitive and emotional strengths. This is not conjecture; these are observed traits found with a dyslexia diagnosis. There are two possible reasons:
- Dyslexics are forced to learn to think outside the box to work around their difficulties
- Dyslexics are more immune to today’s schooling, which stifles creativity
According to Sperry’s left-brain, right-brain analysis, a “left-brained” person is more logical, analytical, and objective, while a “right-brained” person is more visual, thoughtful, and creative.
You can see why dyslexics tend to be right-brain thinkers. They are visual because their language processing is weak – they have no choice. They are thoughtful because they can empathize with the toils of others, and they are creative because they need to find inventive ways to work around their many daily challenges and keep up. This practice of working around difficulties turns dyslexics into natural problem solvers.
The second “advantage” stemming from a dyslexia diagnosis is immunity from the impact of today’s schooling. As Ken Robinson describes in this famous TED Talk. How Schools Kill Creativity, the focus on a narrow curriculum measurable by test results and the push to perfect skills (like spelling and grammar) gradually squeezes natural-born creativity out of children. Dyslexic children are often on a different educational track so they can avoid some of this narrowing of thinking, with Steve Jobs and Steven Spielberg being prime examples.
Dyslexia teaches your child tenacity
There is nothing more character-building than true hardship. In today’s coddling society, many of our children don’t get to experience hardship until they get out from under the helicopter blades. Often, this doesn’t happen until they leave home as young adults.
Children with a dyslexia diagnosis, in fact, all children with learning difficulties, have different life experiences. They experience real hardship. They endure the frustration of not being able to do something others find easy. They feel the sting of failure daily, and they ask questions of themselves—am I good enough, am I working hard enough—at an early age, whereas their peers may reach this point only in college or their first job.
Not all dyslexic children can internalize these lessons, sometimes depending on what else is going on in their intellectual and emotional makeup. But for those who do, it builds internal fortitude and a work ethic that can become a huge advantage later in life.
Many adults overcome dyslexia.
In the vast majority of cases, a dyslexia diagnosis is related to a language processing disorder that slows learning and reading progress.
Language processing is a learned cognitive skill — children with delays just need to listen to more words than their peers to get the stimulation they need to become efficient listeners and then readers. Over time, language processing skills improve simply by participating in life — listening to teachers, parents, peers, and music. As processing improves, so too does phonemic awareness and other foundational reading and learning skills.
While dyslexics may never become excellent, joyful readers, many improve to the point where reading is no longer painful. For most, this is a distinct improvement from their early experience with reading. For adults who have suffered from dyslexia, this improved relationship with reading is somewhat akin to what it feels like when someone stops hitting their head against a brick wall — it’s a very positive change for which they are far more grateful and enthused than those who had no problems with reading earlier on.
Dyslexia, The Bad
There are perfectly good reasons why conventional wisdom thinks of a dyslexia diagnosis as bad news. Most notably, it predicts a difficult time in school with listening in class, reading, and writing. Dyslexia adds up to dozens of humiliations every day—mishearing things, not understanding a question when asked, not following the teacher in class, tripping over words while reading aloud in class or to parents, homework stress, endless test-day and grade disappointments, and on and on.
Furthermore, while other children enjoy sports, dyslexic children spend time after school and over the summer in remedial reading courses or with tutors, catching up on material missed in class. It’s a childhood you would not wish for your child.
For the dyslexic, difficulty with learning also leads to a lack of learning confidence, which snowballs into a reluctance to become a learning risk-taker. This is sometimes referred to as the Matthew Effect. While good readers and learners have no problem taking on a new challenge — if it is too hard for them, they have the confidence to take it in stride and either try again or just move on.
Either way, confidence in their learning abilities protects them from setbacks and keeps encouraging them to open new doors. Dyslexic students are just the opposite. They will tend to avoid new material, new ideas, and new ways to fail. If they are forced to try, and they do struggle, they may internalize this as another reminder that learning is too hard.
Dyslexia, The Ugly
As a child, reading and learning are your job. If you are not good at it, your mental health, motivation, and self-esteem gradually erode. The advent of standards, particularly the Common Core, which sets the bar for reading high at a very early age, has only aggravated these feelings of failure against the so-called norm.
Secondly, many dyslexic children spend a large part of their childhood with the disorienting feeling that the world is coming at them too fast (they can’t process fast enough to keep up), that they are always behind, and have no chance of catching up. These aspects of a dyslexia diagnosis were first revealed starkly in Rick Lavoie’s famous F.A.T. City videos. This is becoming even more true in today’s test-obsessed schools where “read to learn” is being introduced at an earlier and earlier age.
Finally, the need to focus on measurable test results means schools have less and less time to explore their students’ talents, which means many dyslexic children don’t get to experience what success feels like. There is very little time for creativity, the very thing many dyslexic children can do well, the very thing that could help offset the hits they take all day in other subjects.
While it is true that many adults have emerged from dyslexia to succeed in life, you have to wonder if that possibility awaits this current generation. In prior years, schools allocated time for students to explore their talents, and no standards starkly communicated to dyslexic students the extent of their failings. Today’s children with dyslexia are arguably more at risk because of the current test result-based education reforms.
The Best Type of Dyslexia, “I Used To Have” Dyslexia
At its core, dyslexia has far-reaching implications — here’s what dyslexia looks like. It undermines listening, spoken language, reading, test-taking, and writing. Perhaps as important as all this, language is the brain’s operating system — it’s how we think. Children with a dyslexia diagnosis are battling a clunky language operating system that hinders thinking and reasoning.
These symptoms represent major life headwinds.
As we outlined above, a dyslexia diagnosis in early life can help a child develop right-brained attributes—creativity, internal fortitude, empathy, etc. If a child can then beat their dyslexia and overlay these right-brained skills with reasonable literacy, logic, and thinking skills, they could be a force to be reckoned with.
The reality, though, is that most dyslexics do not develop this way. Sally Shaywitz, author of Overcoming Dyslexia, estimates that around 10% of the population (estimates range from 5% to 17%) have dyslexia symptoms, if not a dyslexia diagnosis. Dyslexics in areas that require literacy or higher-order thinking are far underrepresented because most dyslexics do not recover from their early childhood setbacks and do not overcome dyslexia.
Dyslexia can broaden a child for sure, but the price paid is awful. The pain of living with dyslexia is too high, and the consequences of entering adulthood with dyslexia can be serious. The attributes of dyslexia, creativity in particular, which we have argued elsewhere, are indeed in short supply and are only helpful if a child can function in the real world. In most jobs, this means overcoming dyslexia so that reading, writing, and critical thinking skills are career-ready.
Don’t Celebrate Dyslexia, Try To Beat It
Our advice, therefore, is not to celebrate dyslexia but to fight it.
Can you overcome dyslexia? Yes, practically speaking, yes, you can.
Will dyslexia go away on its own? That’s a tougher question. Many children with early reading difficulties go on to be successful readers without any intervention beyond added help at school.
However, if your child’s reading difficulty rises to the level of being labeled dyslexia, that signifies a cognitive skill gap that will not close on its own. Dyslexia treatment, given the downsides of life with dyslexia, is almost always the right choice.
If you or your child is dyslexic, we recommend taking action to remediate it. Do not be seduced by the feel-good dyslexia-is-a-gift stories. While it is true that many dyslexics gradually learn to read comfortably and outgrow dyslexia in their late teens or early 20s, the consequences of not doing so are severe.
Relying on nature to take its course and hoping dyslexia fades away is a huge risk.
These days, dyslexia doesn’t have to be a life sentence. If you are seeking help for dyslexia, there are treatment options, not just coping strategies (Ideas on help for dyslexia here).
Dyslexia Treatment Options
While Gemm Learning provides Fast ForWord, one of the most researched reading programs for dyslexia in the world, it’s not the only option.
The right treatment depends on your child’s symptoms and strengths, as well as your family’s logistics —software like ours can be done online at home on your schedule, while other interventions require regular attendance at a center.
The brain is constantly changing, always looking to self-improve. Real changes are possible, even with a dyslexia diagnosis. While nothing is certain in the world of learning interventions, and we don’t always see miracles, options exist. Because of brain plasticity, the window for improved reading and learning is always open.
